With spring half-term just around the corner, it’s a great time to start thinking ahead. For separated parents, school holidays present an opportunity to spend quality time with their children, but they can also come with their own set of challenges. With some careful planning and a willingness to be flexible, it’s possible to create arrangements that work for everyone.
Every family is unique
There’s no one-size-fits-all solution when it comes to contact arrangements. Each family’s situation is different, and the arrangements should reflect what works best for you, your co-parent, and, most importantly, your child.
No matter the arrangement, the welfare and best interests of your child should always come first. However, there are times when finding common ground can be tricky. Work commitments, travel plans, or even the distance between parents’ homes can create hurdles.
Planning ahead
Our advice is to start planning as early as possible. Giving the other parent plenty of notice about your availability and any plans—like taking your child abroad during the holidays—can make a big difference. Be sure to consider:
- Your work schedule
- Your co-parent’s availability
- Any special events or travel plans
It’s important to remember that flexibility is just as important as planning. A willingness to compromise can go a long way in preventing conflict, which is better for everyone, especially your child.
When disagreements arise
If you’re finding it difficult to reach an agreement, there are ways forward. Seeking legal advice early can help you understand your options. A family lawyer can guide you through:
- Solicitor correspondence (writing to the other parent on your behalf)
- Non-Court Dispute Resolution options like mediation or Collaborative Law
These steps can often help resolve matters without needing to go to court, which is always the last resort.
Following a Court Order
If you already have a legally binding Court Order in place for contact arrangements, it’s crucial to follow its terms. Many Orders include some flexibility for agreeing on additional contact in writing. If an agreement isn’t possible, the arrangements in the Court Order serve as the fallback position. If you’re unsure about what the Order requires, seeking legal advice is essential.
If you’d like to discuss any of the issues mentioned here or need advice on any other family law matter, our team are here to help. Contact Ellie Straughan at ellie.straughan@swinburnemaddison.co.uk or call the family team on 0191 384 2441.
