With the summer holidays now underway, many parents are settling into a new routine as they juggle work commitments, annual leave, holidays, and childcare arrangements.
For separated parents, however, this period can bring additional challenges, particularly when it comes to agreeing how children will spend time with each parent and managing any changes to usual routines.
Open communication remains key. Even if plans are still evolving, having clear and constructive discussions can help parents agree practical arrangements that prioritise their children’s needs. A collaborative approach can reduce the potential for conflict, provide certainty for everyone involved, and support a positive co-parenting relationship throughout the summer break.
Agreeing Arrangements
Unless there is a Court Order in place that sets out arrangements for the summer holidays, there is no fixed formula for how time should be divided. Every family’s circumstances are different, and flexibility is often required, particularly if plans change during the holiday period.
If arrangements have been agreed, it is sensible to record them in writing. This could be as simple as a shared calendar or the use of co-parenting apps such as My Family Wizard, which are designed to help separated parents manage arrangements clearly and efficiently. Having a written record can help avoid misunderstandings and provide reassurance for both parents.
When Discussions Are Difficult
In some cases, discussions about holiday arrangements may be difficult or unsuccessful. Where issues arise, seeking early legal advice can help you understand your options. As family solicitors, we can advise on possible approaches and, where appropriate, assist with negotiations to try and reach an agreement with the other parent.
Considering Non-Court Dispute Resolution
If agreement cannot be reached, the next step is usually to consider Non-Court Dispute Resolution (NCDR), such as mediation. We can guide you through this process in more detail. In most cases, NCDR must be attempted before an application to Court can be made, unless an exemption applies.
Court as a Last Resort
Court proceedings should always be seen as a last resort, as they can be both time-consuming and costly. However, if this step becomes necessary, we will support and guide you throughout the process.
If you are experiencing difficulties with summer holiday arrangements or any of the issues raised above, please do not hesitate to get in touch with our Family Law team.
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Ellie Straughan
Solicitor
Ellie Straughan qualified as a solicitor in January 2023 and has quickly made a name for herself with her strong commitment to delivering the…
